Secret 10 tips for best motherhood

When a lady becomes a mother, she always wishes to be the one whom her kids inspire the most. And she also wishes that the time period of being a mother in the early stages goes well without any stress and worries.
Every mother struggles with a question that whether she is doing her job of being a mother well or not? And getting such question is very very natural as it signifies that you are worried about your child. Such kinds of questions when you ask questions to yourself arises when your child does some mistake or something that you never had expected in their behavior. So here we have listed upon some secret tips for the mothers to follow. These will help you take care of your child from a very early stage.

1. Say No:

You should never say ‘yes’ to all the wishes of your kid. You should have the practice of saying ‘no’ once a day. It will not only help your kid control themselves but help you too. Like if you are going to a supermarket you can say no once for a thing or every night once you can practice.

2. Create Mini Traditions:

If it’s your child’s birthday then you can put up balloons around any area of your house the night before and when your child wakes up, he/she would love to see the surprise of yours. You can also enjoy making some noises when in an elevator or some places like that just to have fun. Maybe you can create a handshake of yours that you can do whenever you meet. Creating such moments would be fun for both.

3. Find Your Crew:

Find some friends for yourself whom you can count on whenever you are in need. Make friends who will always be there to give their opinion when you require it and keep them quiet when you don’t need any. Also, the ones who would happily drop things and be there for you just like your family and vice- versa. Don’t forget to thank them enough and often.

4. Remember You’re A Role Model:

Be a mother that your kids inspire. Become such an appealing mom that you kid want to have children and you become a grandparent. Don’t show your stress or fussiness out, else your kid won’t inspire to become a parent themselves.

5. Go Small With Big Changes:

Who doesn’t want changes? Of course, everyone wishes to get or have to change something or the other in his/her life and so do you. But go with the changes very smoothly but quickly. Don’t let your child get overwhelmed. Let your child slowly and steadily get into the new things and experience a little bit themselves. And once your child starts getting used to then you can officially switch the things and changes are done!

6. Help Your Baby Fall Asleep On Her Own:

Initially feed your baby at the start and help them sleep. After their routine of bath, books and all the family cuddles put them and allow them to sleep on their own. If you always stay by their side then you would be never able to fall asleep on their own.

7. Establish Chores:

From the very beginning make your child learn to do their things on their own. Let them empty their trash themselves, let them make their bed themselves, allow them to set their tables according to their needs and requirement. Ask them to clean there room on their own after playing and also to help a little bit in your household work.it would help your kid’s self – esteem build as letting them do their task themselves would make them feel that you have trust in them.

8. Don’t Become The Butter:

Make your child so self-independent from an early age and har wired for the outside world. Ask them to put their clothes themselves in the closet and put their dirty cloth in the hamper from the very initial stage. It would help you too. Initially, as a mother it would hurt you that your child is not able to work properly and facing troubles. But don’t forget that all this is for themselves only, so that they become strong and face the world that is not at all a buttery place.

9. Be Without A Ceiling:

Try to go out with your family and get the fresh air under the beautiful sky. This can be a great escape for the sedentary activities and from the screens. It would help you re-establish a rain – or – shine ritual which helps you and benefits your child.

10. Make Math More Fun:

Don’t let the opportunity to play with numbers go. Make your child play with numbers, sizes, and shapes. Ask them to count the fruits and put them into the baskets and you can do other activities that involve maths. It would help them grow in maths from the very beginning. Make your child comfortable with maths so that they enjoy learning it at later stages.

No matter whatever the mistakes the kids do, but the mother is the only person in this world who will always forgive them. And the mother is the only one after the god who is by the child always. Therefore it’s important to remember that God always sent you down for that child. He obviously would have thought that you are the perfect mother for the kid.
So release your inner uncertainties and become a mother who is not only good enough for their kids but great too whom everyone can look upon and inspire. Try to communicate with your kids as much as you can and make them realize all the sacrifices themselves. Become a confident mother.
Don’t let your mind think at any moment that you are not a great mother. All efforts of yours are being counted and will be counted. Take care of yourself and take the best care of your child too. Happy motherhood!